You will be missed.
You will be missed.
To all my friends and family, I am happy and thankful for your presence in this world. Most of all, to my Kenya family, I am happy and in praise of the Almighty for keeping you alive throughout the horrendous events of the Nairobi Westgate shootings. I know many of you were spared through what can only be described as Divine Intervention and for that, I stand in gratitude, in humble praise and in deference for those we lost. To my extended family who lost their beloveds, I pray for your strength of faith, for your peace and for the eternal peace and rest of those who were taken from us.
Sometimes there is no rhyme or reason; sometimes things have to happen that make no sense. All we can do is keep faith alive, keep praying, keep standing in the face of adversity and keep humble and keep loving each other. When events like this happen, let us remind each other that what really matters is us– you matter. I matter. We are here. Ameen. Amen. Ahmen.
We have all been programmed since our collective childhoods to believe that the world works in a certain way. But here’s the truth of how this incredible Universe unfolds: “We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so to have the life that is waiting for us.” (Joseph Campbell) For many of you, it will require an “unlearning” of everything you have been taught– the programming of “you have to.”
You have to go to school and you have to then get a job with benefits and you have to have a retirement plan and you have to get married and you have to have children, etc, etc.
The real truth is that the only thing you “have” to do is Live. Be who you are at all times. Love this. Love you. Love life. Re-write the software that planned your life before your life began.
Re-write it, learn anew, learn what the Yogis and the Sufis and the Mystics and the Gnostics and the Taoists have been saying for centuries: “You are the key. And you are enough.” Life is short- be brave.
“It is your turn now,
you waited, you were patient.
The time has come,
for us to polish you.
We will transform your inner pearl
into a house of fire.
You’re a gold mine.
Did you know that,
hidden in the dirt of the earth?
It is your turn now,
to be placed in fire.
Let us cremate your impurities.”
So many words, so many truths.
Wish I could have, wish I should have, wish I might have…
known you better.
You chose your journey –
A path we couldn’t follow.
Now, we are hollow.
Your absence is a presence profound
A truth newly found,
For family, friends, kith and kin
We shall mourn and we shall grieve,
with a heartfelt prayer upon lips: may the memory of you never leave.
And a prayer upon heart: may you find divine, eternal peace.
© Safreena Rajan (Nyteflowr)
For Stan, loving son, brother, friend, artist and devoted would-be democrat.
A Saint who was visiting the river Ganges to take a bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting at each other in anger.
The Saint turned to his disciples, smiled and asked, ‘Why do people shout at each other when they are angry?’
The followers thought for a while. Then one of them said, ‘Because we lose our peacefulness, we shout.’
‘But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner,’ replied the saint.
The followers attempted other answers but none satisfied the other followers.
Finally, the Saint explained,
‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance by a great measure. To cover that distance they must shout to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other over that great distance.
What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but speak softly, because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either non-existent or very small…’
The saint continued, ‘When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, they only whisper and they become even closer to each other in their love. Finally, they need not even whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.’
He looked at his followers and said:
‘So, when you argue do not let your hearts become distant. Do not say words that distance each other more, or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.’
My prayer for all of you this week:
May you love so much and so well that you never need to shout.